Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Jonah didn't win...



They had the results of the radio contest this morning, and...Jonah didn't win. He is a performer, let me tell you -- anytime someone new comes over, he whispers to me, asking if he can do a 'concert' -- hoping to sweeten the offer to me by adding "just one song? please? Baby Oh?"

Poor little fella. He was a little disappointed, actually. He didn't cry, but he was on the verge...I let him be sad for a couple minutes, 'cause...its a normal reaction...I find sometimes I am quick to make him 'do the right thing'...but I don't want to always be crushing his spirit, ya know? Emotions are real. Disappointment, and anger, and frustration...especially when he must feel like he's always being told to 'stop' or do something...I'm trying to find creative ways of 'diverting' him, because I, for one, would hate to constantly be told 'no' or to stop, or follow whatever commands or orders applicable for the moment...I know I get tired of saying it, so I'm sure he gets tired of hearing it. oh my word, parenting is hard work, isn't it?

Anyways. He loves performing and singing and dancing...he does not get this from Jay or I, that's for sure...but, darlin' little fella has it in his soul, so...hopefully his disappointment today will not make too big of a mark!

I love this animated, hilarious, energetic, happy boy. I still think he was the best contestant!

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